again... beritahu atau minta izin? amboi..makin panas..

ironically, after this post, which was written on random thoughts, someone is questioning my decision to ask for hubby's permission on something.

buat status kat FB kononnya 'nk tanya husband dulu' ialah alasan..

ada kawan aku yg bertuah sorang ni,nk promote her business. selama ni mmg aku tau dia buat bisnes ni, and ok la...good for you sbb earn blabla in blabla months.

earlier today dia try approach aku utk join bisnes ni. truth is i'm not interested. tapi out of curiosity, aku minta dia email the details. she insisted nak jumpa pulak.

here's another truth.. i'm struggling right now, time-wise. still dlm scheduling mode. utk sesuai kan diri dgn new routines. dgn alya yg dh 3 ari demam. dgn rumah yg tak terurus. dgn assignment yg belambak. (tp nk jugak tulis blog.. sbb tension!)

mmg aku SAHM sekarang, tapi percaya la.. ia tak semudah yg disangka. aku mmg takde responsibilities at work.. tapi gains a lot more other responsibilities (read : domestic).

so, kalau aku nk allocate time utk meet-up with this lady, i need to consider my hubby. need to ask, if that's ok with him. mayb dia ada plan lain ke, kena work extra hours ke.. with new project (read : Tuah) yg tgh rancak kt kilang skang ni. mayb dia letih sgt, tak larat nk look after alya ke. byk possibilities.. so, why not discuss first kan?

like i wrote in previous post, minta izin.. bukannye bgtau.

erkkk now i feel less bengang, sbb rasa aku buat benda yg betul.

so pd yg terasa (kalau la dia bc blog ni)... xpayah la susah2 nk set appointment ngan aku. sbb dr ada perasan curious, terus tawar hati dan bleh blahh..(tak bengang konon..)

kalau ko nk buat sesuka hati.. dan sekadar nk 'bagitau' suami... up to you. mcm ko cakap, asalkan rumah tangga aman damai.

tapi aku ada pendirian sendiri.
pls have some respect.
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amacam, bertuah tak suami aku? :)
[ayat poyo]